Christopher tm Herdt ([info]cherdt) wrote,
@ 2005-01-28 09:13:00
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Livejournal, circa 1945
My mom told me that when she was in Florida, attending her mother in the hospital, that her mother received a round-robin letter from her friends.

"Huh?" I said. "Please explain."

It turns out that during W.W. II, my grandmother and some other girls had a tight-knit group of friends in Lima, Ohio, where they lived and worked. After the war ended many of the women got married and moved out of town, so they decided to stay in touch by creating a letter circle. Each envelope contained a letter from every member of the group. When you receive it, you've seen none of the letters but your own from the last round, and so you read all the letters and then replace your letter with a new one and send it on. Each letter is really a missive to the entire group, and it saved both time and expense and sending individual letters.

Apparently they had been writing on a regular basis for 60 years, although my mom pointed out that the circle had gotten smaller. My mom asked my grandmother what she wanted to say in what would undoubtedly be her last letter to the group. She declined to dictate anything and merely said, "You know what you need to write." My mom composed a letter letting them know their friend was not long for this world, and that it was wonderful that their letters arrived when they did and could be shared.

I am impressed and fascinated by this. I had never heard of a round-robin letter before. An unbroken circle of communication and friendship, 60 years and running.



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[info]flastron
2005-01-28 02:45 pm UTC (link)
The only thing that could be better would be a potsal round-robin.

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[info]cherdt
2005-01-29 10:30 pm UTC (link)
We could set up a round-robin where you replace every sixth letter with your own, but it's a circuit of 12 people. That way, you never read the letters from anyone that is reading your letters.

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[info]monkey1976
2005-01-28 03:02 pm UTC (link)
cool story

i'm going to ask my grandma about this, though i'm sure its going to lead to stories of how everyone she knows is dead. guess that happens when you're 91

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[info]cherdt
2005-01-28 09:35 pm UTC (link)
I just searched for "round-robin letters" and found a collection of letters written between 1919 and 1938, among others. Maybe round-robin letters were common practice?

Tell your grandma that, based on her plight, I am going to befriend only people younger than myself from now on, in case I should fall victim to such longevity.

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(Anonymous)
2005-01-29 09:40 pm UTC (link)
yeah, round robins must have been common back in the day.

My grandmother's side of the family has one that's still being circulated. It goes to every family and they add pictures and letters about how everyone's doing. A lot of them have passed on too. But the younger generations are still inputting stuff.

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[info]cherdt
2005-01-29 10:27 pm UTC (link)
That's especially interesting--it has become a multi-generational round-robin letter. Although I suspect that may cut down on the intimacy of the missives.

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[info]well_lahdidah
2005-01-28 05:01 pm UTC (link)
unfortunately, i doubt livejournal will last 60 years.

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[info]cherdt
2005-01-28 09:37 pm UTC (link)
Man, even if it does, I hope I'm not still kibbitzing with you jokers in 2065. I'm sure I will have improved my social circle by then. Maybe I'll be the King of the Moon!

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[info]lovely_mali
2005-01-28 05:47 pm UTC (link)
I wish more people would send letters. My boyfriend sends letters to his old fashion family and low and behold he receives beautiful hand written letters back in the mail constantly.

I send postcards- which are pleasant for other reasons- like leaving little notes for people.

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[info]cherdt
2005-01-28 09:40 pm UTC (link)
I think high school and college were the only times I really wrote a lot of hand-written letters, probably because I didn't want the expense of long-distance phone calls and e-mail was not yet ubiquitous.

I keep meaning to pick up the habit again, but I usually give up after a few brief attempts.

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[info]lovely_mali
2005-01-29 12:43 am UTC (link)
that's why post cards perfect, I try to pick them up anywhere I go- whether it's some small town in Pennsylvania or Chicago or New Orleans, then I try to send them from other places, A Chicago postcard from New Orleans a Oregon one from Michigan. It's nice becuase it's cheap and you can keep it really simple. A few lines... Thinking of you, all's well etc... it makes people happy.

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[info]clovecigarettes
2005-01-29 09:06 am UTC (link)
I met my husband, [info]the23, because he was my pen pal. His letters were hilarious.

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[info]lovely_mali
2005-01-29 05:36 pm UTC (link)
I wish I had a pen pal... I've had them in the past and it was always nice. Really though, I'd love to do the Round Robin thing Cherdt's talking about- that sounds awesome.

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[info]clovecigarettes
2005-01-29 08:07 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, a round robin would be great!

I love mail -- I've resorted to bribing my sister in order to get letters from her. "I'll send you coffee beans if you promise to be my pen pal."

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